happy tofurky day everyone! eat drink and be merry. hoping aunt edna won't force you to eat her special casserole that is a very odd bright yellow color, that nobody asks 'so, when are you getting married? having kids? aren't you getting old? you better get a move on before it's too late!' or offers any other unsolicited advice...and that you have a fabulous time with your families and friends. drive safely. smile. and hug your grandma for me. all grandmas need extra hugs. i am off to southern california...where you can have thanksgiving dinner on the patio by the pool. :) only in socal.

i forgot a something below...i am thankful for my 'digital compatriots' (stole that one from chad). for making me laugh, making me think, teaching me about life, letting me into pieces of their lives, reading about mine, and reminding me we all struggle - i am not alone in this crazy world. thanks, guys.